We met in July 1993 at Big Heart City, a bar in San Francisco, at a weekly dance club called Terminator. The theme was Industrial/Alternative. Rhett was there with someone else and followed Ruby outside to compliment her on her dancing. The story continued at another dance venue called Dance Jam in Oakland 2-3 months later. Ruby ran over and asked if he remembered her. He said no. They were inseparable from then on.